I've made a decision. Not necessarily a big one, maybe not even a very important one.

I have often found myself in a situation where I meet a guy who is cute, intelligent and funny. But unfortunately he is not very smart, thinks he can get by on cute and let's be honest, funny is nice, but it doesn't cover the flaws.

These boys appear to think that I am happy being their "for now" girl. They say they care, they say I'm "different" from the girls they've dated -_-. Bull.
I have come to realize that they are treating me like a GIRL. Not "female", a Girl!

Some silly airheaded little lady that is just so dang happy to be noticed that I won't realize that I am being walked on.

That is my shallow teeniebopper complaint...

However, I am a woman. "We" are women, and as women why should we settle for boys?

I do not want someone I have to raise, to babysit, or to coddle. Every woman desires a strong, honest, comforting...MAN. So, I declare that as women, we should not settle for anything less.

What happened to Prince Charming? Knights in shining armor? It seems that every guy is stuck in squirehood. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be fought for.

For once, rather than being told that I am cared for, loved, wanted. I want to be shown. I don't simply want to be chased, I want to be pursued. I want to be sought after by a man who knows exactly what he wants. 

I have yet to find such a man, nevertheless, I have the strongest faith that he will manage to come to me. Because if I am dreaming of this man, perhaps he is out there somewhere dreaming of me.